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I don't know

I have a BIG HUGE dilemma (sp?)

I have a friend whom I used to date. When we broke up I decided to stay friends. He gave me the option of still talking, or just forgetting things all together. I made the choice. Which has been fine for the most part, we go out and have fun and do friend stuff. But it's always been a little weird ya know. We had a good relationship, but our friendship is really starting to feel like our relationship did, but without the intimacy. He has been (at least this is how I feel) trying to get closer. Wanting to come over a lot, calling me, texting me. And yesterday he was at Sears and he called me and said "hey, when I am done here I am stopping over." I said I was busy but yet he stopped over anyways, and ended up hanging out for like 4 hours. I had a shit ton of cookies to make for my parts store guys, and I was cleaning and just getting things done around the house.

Well now he wants me to go to the Eaton County Fair wednesday with him to watch some enduro cars. It would be fun, but I don't think I want to go. I think it's been like this the entire time, but I am really starting to notice now because I have been talking to other guys and moving on. How do I tell him that things need to be cut back? I don't want to lose his friendship, but I think that if I am to start dating someone else he probably won't want to be around. I mean, I know I wouldn't want to be around an ex of mine when his new girl is around. It's just weird. Oh, another big problem .... I invited him to go to Dianna's wedding with me. I already RSVP'd for 2, but I am not comfortable having him go with me. I know I'm probably just being crazy, but a wedding is an intimate affair and I don't know if I want to share that with him. WHAT DO I DO?

A close friend and I had a little heart to heart the other night and she said that I should just keep the original plans. At first I thought to myself, yes that is what I should do. But I have been sitting on this all weekend, and contemplating and then after yesterday's incident and this annoyance about going on wednesday I am thinking that it's not the right thing to do. I know that if I am to tell him that I am talking to a new guy, and that I don't think that he should come with me to the wedding, he is probably going to split. I was the one who decided to keep the friendship after we broke up. How am I supposed to tell him ... I am at a loss


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